Category: Wedding Planning

From a Nashville wedding officiant who sees what really helps (and what doesn’t) Your wedding day is over, you’re catching your breath, and now you’re thinking, “How do we properly thank the people who made this whole thing happen?” Good. Vendors remember the couples who take those extra two minutes to acknowledge their hard work….

Ever notice how much personality a good wedding sign adds to the day? Whether it’s a “Welcome to Our Wedding” board, a funny cocktail sign, or a sleek acrylic seating chart — those little details set the tone the second guests walk in. I saw a new one recently at a wedding I officiated. It…

Well, I’m old enough to remember when things were a lot simpler in many ways. I’m not saying I want to go back – there are things about today I enjoy. But the old adage is still often true: Less is more. (If only I can remember that when I am eating coconut donuts in…

So, have you guys thought about putting a dress code on your invitation? Honestly, I think it’s such a good idea. You know how it is as a guest, right? You get an invite, and you have no idea what to wear. You show up too fancy, and you feel awkward all night. But then…

You know the scene. You’re trying to tell your partner about your day, but they aren’t really there. Their eyes are cast down, lit by the glow of a phone as their thumb scrolls endlessly. That little sting of being ignored for a screen? It has a name: phubbing, or phone-snubbing. Oddly, it might even…

Picture this: it’s Thursday at golden hour. Your people spill onto a rooftop, the skyline is glowing, and a local songwriter hits the first chord of your favorite song. The air smells like hot chicken and fresh biscuits. Everyone exhales. This isn’t a rushed Saturday; it’s the start of a wedding week that feels like…

Planning a wedding can feel like you’re trying to build Ikea furniture without the instructions—lots of random pieces and no clue where to start. Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Here’s the order that keeps things from getting messy (and keeps you from blowing your budget before you even book a venue). 1. Money Talk First…

When most people picture a wedding, they imagine a Saturday celebration. But more and more couples are discovering the charm (and the practical perks) of saying “I do” on a Sunday. As someone who officiates weddings all across Middle Tennessee, I can tell you—Sundays are becoming a favorite for couples who want a beautiful, stress-free…

Choosing the right date is one of the biggest decisions couples make—and it’s not just about the season or the venue. More couples are considering weekday weddings these days, and each option (weekday vs. weekend) has its own perks and challenges. Here’s what I’ve seen from the officiant’s side of things: Weekend Weddings Pros: Cons:…

The truth: Wedding guests remember the ceremony… but not always for the right reasons. Here’s what they secretly complain about — and how to keep yours complaint-free. 💡 When I officiate, one of my goals to help keep your guests smiling.