Planning a wedding can feel like you’re trying to build Ikea furniture without the instructions—lots of random pieces and no clue where to start. Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Here’s the order that keeps things from getting messy (and keeps you from blowing your budget before you even book a venue). 1. Money Talk First…
Author: Ralph Griggs
Wedding minister officiant serving the Nashville and middle Tennessee area for 20 plus years. Non-denominational and personalized ceremonies. At-Home marriage prep course author.
Why More Couples Are Choosing a Sunday Wedding in Nashville
When most people picture a wedding, they imagine a Saturday celebration. But more and more couples are discovering the charm (and the practical perks) of saying “I do” on a Sunday. As someone who officiates weddings all across Middle Tennessee, I can tell you—Sundays are becoming a favorite for couples who want a beautiful, stress-free…
Historic Riverwood Mansion – Endless Photo Ops
I have officiated dozens of weddings at Riverwood Mansion, but hadn’t fully realized how beautiful a venue it is until I decided to take some shots at yesterday’s wedding. Here are a few of the photos below but I could have taken many more. After much needed rain that morning, it cleared up and was…
From “I Do” to “We Did It”: A Practical Guide for the First Year of Marriage (Part Two)
Level Up Your Communication (because telepathy is still not a thing) You’ve got the basics down—no more arguments over who pays the rent. But marriage cranks up the need for deeper talks, especially about dreams, fears, and that one habit that’s suddenly more annoying post-vows. Practical Tips: Remember, venting to friends is fine—it doesn’t make…
Ravenswood Mansion: Middle Tennessee Southern Wedding Charm
I had the pleasure of officiating a wedding at Ravenswood Mansion in Brentwood yesterday. This historic 1825 mansion, surrounded by rolling hills and beautiful grounds, is one of the most elegant and timeless venues in the Nashville area—a perfect backdrop for a classic Southern wedding. For late August especially, it was an incredibly beautiful day….
Micro Wedding at CJ’s Off the Square
I officiated a micro wedding at CJ’s Off the Square in Franklin, Tennessee yesterday. The couple’s dog, Cinco, was the ring bearer! He was very excited but like a lot of ring bearers was reluctant at first to make his way down the aisle. If you are looking for a beautiful garden venue in the…
From “I Do” to “We Did It”: A Practical Guide for the First Year of Marriage (part 1 of 8)
Hey there, newlyweds! Congratulations on making it official. You’ve already nailed sharing Netflix passwords, divvying up chores, and figuring out who handles the grocery runs without turning it into World War III. So why does that ring and certificate suddenly feel like you’ve leveled up in a video game you didn’t know you were playing?…
The First Year (and Beyond): Marriage Thrive- Guide
1. Keep Dating Each Other (Yes, Even If You Share a Bathroom) What it means: Don’t let “Netflix and takeout” become your only date night. How to do it: • Try a new restaurant once a month — even if it’s just the taco truck by the gas station. • Switch off who plans date…
Petals, Pillows & Panic Attacks: Setting Up Kids for Aisle Success
Including little ones in your wedding can add charm, laughter, and unforgettable moments. But let’s be honest—kids are unpredictable. With the right prep, though, your ring bearer and flower girl can shine in their roles instead of melting down mid-aisle. Here’s how to make it work: 1. Keep Expectations Realistic Don’t expect perfection. Kids under…
Things Your Guests Notice That You Don’t
Wen you’re the couple, the wedding day can feel like a blur. You’re focused on the vows, the photos, the food, and making it through the schedule. But your guests? They pick up on little details you don’t even realize. Here are a few things guests always notice (and often talk about later): 1. The…