If you’re getting married in or around Nashville, chances are your wedding has a little twang, a touch of class, and a whole lot of personality. So why stop at your flowers and food? Your seating chart is one of those small-but-fun details that can pull your whole theme together — and it’s one of…
Author: Ralph Griggs
Wedding minister officiant serving the Nashville and middle Tennessee area for 20 plus years. Non-denominational and personalized ceremonies. At-Home marriage prep course author.
Unique Idea: Your Wedding Guest’s Vows to You
We all know the classic wedding vows: “I do,” “I will,” the promises exchanged between the happy couple. But what about all those incredible people sitting in the audience? The ones who’ve cheered you on, picked you up, and will continue to support you throughout your marriage journey? What if your entire community of friends…
What is a Ring Warming Ceremony?
Looking for a ceremony detail that will make your wedding feel truly personal and deeply connected to your loved ones? Forget the unity sand for a moment—let’s talk about the incredibly simple yet profoundly moving ritual known as a Ring Warming. It’s one of those beautiful little touches that instantly makes your guests feel like…
Questions to Personalize Your Wedding Ceremony
One way to personalize your wedding ceremony is to have something said at the start about you. But what? Here are some questions you can ask yourselves that might give you some ideas. In my experience, whatever you use in the ceremony shouldn’t be too long. You want to make it more “you” but you…
Your Nashville Couple’s Guide to Wedding Websites
Hey y’all, and congrats on your engagement! As you dive into the exciting (and sometimes overwhelming) world of wedding planning, there’s one modern necessity you absolutely need: a wedding website. It’s your digital home base—the one-stop shop for everything from RSVP tracking to telling out-of-town guests where to find the best hot chicken near their…
Best Bible Verses for Your Wedding Ceremony
Getting married is huge—it’s the biggest, most sacred promise you’ll ever make! If you and your partner want to anchor your ceremony in faith, choosing the right Bible verse isn’t just a tradition; it’s a powerful way to set the blueprint for your life together. While I’ve often said to couples that there aren’t as…
A Touch of Southern Hospitality: The 5 Most Considerate Things You Can Do for Your Nashville Wedding Guests
Nashville is known for its incredible energy, unique style, and famous Southern hospitality. When planning your wedding in Music City, thinking about your guests’ experience—especially those traveling from out of town—is the most thoughtful gesture you can make. Here are the five most considerate things you can do to make your Nashville wedding an unforgettable,…
From the Officiant: How to Nail the Aisle-End Dip Kiss
As a wedding officiant, I’ve seen hundreds of ceremonies—and that joyful moment when the couple turns to walk back up the aisle is always a favorite. I joke with couples in our planning meetings to practice the dip kiss so that groom doesn’t bang the bride’s head against a chair. But really, if you’re planning…
What Do You Do If Some of Your Wedding Guests Don’t Speak English?
As a wedding officiant, I have the privilege of standing at the very heart of hundreds of ceremonies. I’ve seen countless couples from diverse backgrounds, and time and again, I’ve witnessed one simple truth: every single guest should feel completely included. But that is not always the case. Most often it seems, some of the…
Honky-Tonks, “I Do’s,” and… Security? Why You Might Need It for Your Nashville Wedding
Let’s be real: planning a wedding in Nashville is fun. You’re picking out amazing caterers (hot chicken, anyone?), booking a band that can actually play some Johnny Cash, and choosing between a stunning barn venue in Franklin or a chic downtown hotel with a skyline view. But amidst the cake tastings and playlist debates, your…