Level Up Your Communication (because telepathy is still not a thing) You’ve got the basics down—no more arguments over who pays the rent. But marriage cranks up the need for deeper talks, especially about dreams, fears, and that one habit that’s suddenly more annoying post-vows. Practical Tips: Remember, venting to friends is fine—it doesn’t make…
Author: Ralph Griggs
Wedding minister officiant serving the Nashville and middle Tennessee area for 20 plus years. Non-denominational and personalized ceremonies. At-Home marriage prep course author.
Ravenswood Mansion: Middle Tennessee Southern Wedding Charm
I had the pleasure of officiating a wedding at Ravenswood Mansion in Brentwood yesterday. This historic 1825 mansion, surrounded by rolling hills and beautiful grounds, is one of the most elegant and timeless venues in the Nashville area—a perfect backdrop for a classic Southern wedding. For late August especially, it was an incredibly beautiful day….
Micro Wedding at CJ’s Off the Square
I officiated a micro wedding at CJ’s Off the Square in Franklin, Tennessee yesterday. The couple’s dog, Cinco, was the ring bearer! He was very excited but like a lot of ring bearers was reluctant at first to make his way down the aisle. If you are looking for a beautiful garden venue in the…
From “I Do” to “We Did It”: A Practical Guide for the First Year of Marriage (part 1 of 8)
Hey there, newlyweds! Congratulations on making it official. You’ve already nailed sharing Netflix passwords, divvying up chores, and figuring out who handles the grocery runs without turning it into World War III. So why does that ring and certificate suddenly feel like you’ve leveled up in a video game you didn’t know you were playing?…
The First Year (and Beyond): Marriage Thrive- Guide
1. Keep Dating Each Other (Yes, Even If You Share a Bathroom) What it means: Don’t let “Netflix and takeout” become your only date night. How to do it: • Try a new restaurant once a month — even if it’s just the taco truck by the gas station. • Switch off who plans date…
Petals, Pillows & Panic Attacks: Setting Up Kids for Aisle Success
Including little ones in your wedding can add charm, laughter, and unforgettable moments. But let’s be honest—kids are unpredictable. With the right prep, though, your ring bearer and flower girl can shine in their roles instead of melting down mid-aisle. Here’s how to make it work: 1. Keep Expectations Realistic Don’t expect perfection. Kids under…
Things Your Guests Notice That You Don’t
Wen you’re the couple, the wedding day can feel like a blur. You’re focused on the vows, the photos, the food, and making it through the schedule. But your guests? They pick up on little details you don’t even realize. Here are a few things guests always notice (and often talk about later): 1. The…
Marry on a Saturday—or a Tuesday? Pros & Cons
Choosing the right date is one of the biggest decisions couples make—and it’s not just about the season or the venue. More couples are considering weekday weddings these days, and each option (weekday vs. weekend) has its own perks and challenges. Here’s what I’ve seen from the officiant’s side of things: Weekend Weddings Pros: Cons:…
Worried you’ll ugly-cry through your vows?
It’s completely normal to feel nervous about saying your vows in front of family and friends. For most couples, this is the most personal part of the entire wedding—and suddenly all eyes are on you. As an officiant, I’ve seen plenty of shaky hands, nervous laughter, and even a few “deer in headlights” moments. The…
Music City Nuptials: Your Guide to a Nashville Micro Wedding
Thinking about having a micro wedding in Nashville, TN? You’re in luck. Music City isn’t just for honky-tonks, hot chicken, and bachelorette parties—it’s also one of the best places to say “I do” with just your closest people by your side. With its mix of Southern hospitality, gorgeous scenery, and that “big city with a…