Hey there, newlyweds! Congratulations on making it official. You’ve already nailed sharing Netflix passwords, divvying up chores, and figuring out who handles the grocery runs without turning it into World War III. So why does that ring and certificate suddenly feel like you’ve leveled up in a video game you didn’t know you were playing?…
Author: Ralph Griggs
Wedding minister officiant serving the Nashville and middle Tennessee area for 20 plus years. Non-denominational and personalized ceremonies. At-Home marriage prep course author.
The First Year (and Beyond): Marriage Thrive- Guide
1. Keep Dating Each Other (Yes, Even If You Share a Bathroom) What it means: Don’t let “Netflix and takeout” become your only date night. How to do it: • Try a new restaurant once a month — even if it’s just the taco truck by the gas station. • Switch off who plans date…
Petals, Pillows & Panic Attacks: Setting Up Kids for Aisle Success
Including little ones in your wedding can add charm, laughter, and unforgettable moments. But let’s be honest—kids are unpredictable. With the right prep, though, your ring bearer and flower girl can shine in their roles instead of melting down mid-aisle. Here’s how to make it work: 1. Keep Expectations Realistic Don’t expect perfection. Kids under…
Things Your Guests Notice That You Don’t
Wen you’re the couple, the wedding day can feel like a blur. You’re focused on the vows, the photos, the food, and making it through the schedule. But your guests? They pick up on little details you don’t even realize. Here are a few things guests always notice (and often talk about later): 1. The…
Marry on a Saturday—or a Tuesday? Pros & Cons
Choosing the right date is one of the biggest decisions couples make—and it’s not just about the season or the venue. More couples are considering weekday weddings these days, and each option (weekday vs. weekend) has its own perks and challenges. Here’s what I’ve seen from the officiant’s side of things: Weekend Weddings Pros: Cons:…
Worried you’ll ugly-cry through your vows?
It’s completely normal to feel nervous about saying your vows in front of family and friends. For most couples, this is the most personal part of the entire wedding—and suddenly all eyes are on you. As an officiant, I’ve seen plenty of shaky hands, nervous laughter, and even a few “deer in headlights” moments. The…
Music City Nuptials: Your Guide to a Nashville Micro Wedding
Thinking about having a micro wedding in Nashville, TN? You’re in luck. Music City isn’t just for honky-tonks, hot chicken, and bachelorette parties—it’s also one of the best places to say “I do” with just your closest people by your side. With its mix of Southern hospitality, gorgeous scenery, and that “big city with a…
How to Have a No-Yawn Ceremony
Your wedding ceremony sets the tone for the entire day. It’s the part everyone will remember—and the one you’ll remember most. The best ceremonies aren’t cookie-cutter; they’re tailored to reflect who you are as a couple. Most couples go for simple and straightforward ceremonies. But this guide will walk you through simple ways to personalize…
My Tips for the Unplugged Ceremony
Just as the ceremony is ready to begin with the first family member coming down the aisle, the officiant walks to the front and says something like this: “Good afternoon, everyone. We have a couple ready to get married!. As a reminder, the couple kindly asks that you silence your phones and put them away…
Your Most Important Wedding Hire (Besides Your Bartender)
Congrats, lovebirds! You’re engaged! 🥂 Right now you’re probably dreaming about venues, drooling over cake samples, and wondering if you really need twelve types of flowers (spoiler: no). But let’s talk about the one person who can make or break your big day: the person standing front and center, guiding you through those two little…