Choosing the right date is one of the biggest decisions couples make—and it’s not just about the season or the venue. More couples are considering weekday weddings these days, and each option (weekday vs. weekend) has its own perks and challenges. Here’s what I’ve seen from the officiant’s side of things:
Weekend Weddings
Pros:
- Easier for out-of-town guests to attend.
- Guests don’t have to juggle work schedules.
- Feels more traditional and familiar.
Cons:
- Venues and vendors book up fast.
- Prices are at their peak.
- Traffic and travel can be trickier, especially in busy areas.
Weekday Weddings
Pros:
- Venues and vendors often offer lower rates.
- More availability for your dream date or dream team.
- Intimate feel—guests who come really want to be there.
Cons:
- Guests may need to take off work.
- Shorter celebrations if people have early mornings.
- Smaller turnout (which can be a pro, depending on your vision).
From an Officiant’s View
As an officiant, I adapt to both. Weekend weddings tend to be bigger productions with longer ceremonies, while weekday weddings are often shorter, sweeter, and more personal. I’ve seen some of the most heartfelt ceremonies happen on a Tuesday evening when only the couple’s closest circle was present.
Bottom line: If you want a big celebration with everyone you know, weekends win. If you’re going for budget-friendly, intimate, or a specific date, weekdays are worth considering. Either way—you’ll walk away married, and that’s the best part.