As a wedding officiant, I’ve seen hundreds of ceremonies—and that joyful moment when the couple turns to walk back up the aisle is always a favorite. I joke with couples in our planning meetings to practice the dip kiss so that groom doesn’t bang the bride’s head against a chair. But really, if you’re planning a dip kiss at the end, a bit of preparation will make it look polished, natural, and safe.
Why plan it?
Wedding attire, adrenaline, and slick floors can make even simple moves tricky. A quick plan ensures you both feel confident and your photographer gets the shot.
Technique that works
For the partner leading the dip:
- Set your stance: Feet shoulder-width apart, weight balanced.
- Secure support: Dominant arm around your partner’s mid-back or waist; keep them close.
- Use your legs: Think small forward step and gentle lunge—don’t bend from the back.
- Give a clear cue: A brief hand squeeze or “ready?” keeps you in sync.
For the partner being dipped:
- Trust and stay relaxed, with light core engagement for control.
- Optional leg pop: Bend one knee and point the toe for a clean line in photos.
- Hands: Around your partner’s shoulders or neck—supportive and natural.
Practice smart
- Run it a few times at home.
- Hold the dip for 2–3 seconds so your photographer can capture it.
- Rehearse the exit—rise smoothly and continue your recessional without pause.
- Test in wedding shoes to check grip and comfort.
Day-of coordination
- Give your photographer a heads-up so they’re positioned and ready.
- Check aisle space and any décor before you start your recessional.
Done well, the dip kiss reads as effortless and elegant. A little practice is all it takes.