So, when you close your eyes and picture your wedding ceremony, what’s the soundtrack playing in your head? Is it the elegant notes of a string quartet? The soulful voice of a live singer? Or maybe it’s your song playing softly as you walk down the aisle. Music is one of those magical details that completely sets the mood, tugs on everyone’s heartstrings, and makes your ceremony feel uniquely yours.
But with so many options, how do you even begin to choose? (Honestly, I think the only thing I’ve ever heard that I didn’t love was bagpipes. They are so loud!)
Let’s chat about some of the most popular choices for ceremony music, along with a few tips to help you find the perfect fit for your special day.
1. The Timeless Classics
If you’re dreaming of a timeless, elegant ceremony, you really can’t go wrong with classical music. You know the ones I’m talking about: Pachelbel’s “Canon in D,” the classic “Here Comes the Bride,” or Mendelssohn’s “Wedding March.” These pieces have stuck around for a reason—they’re romantic, grand, and give you that instant “fairytale wedding” feeling. Hiring live musicians, like a string quartet or a harpist, can add an extra touch of sophistication, but even a great recording can create that perfect atmosphere.
2. Modern Love Songs
For couples who want their ceremony to feel a bit more personal and current, modern love songs are a fantastic way to go. Whether it’s Ed Sheeran’s “Perfect,” John Legend’s “All of Me,” or that one song that’s just so you, contemporary music makes the moment feel intimate and real. You can go for softer, acoustic versions for a more low-key vibe, or use the original recordings if your venue is cool with it. Some couples even ask a talented friend or family member to perform, which is always an incredibly touching moment.
3. Honoring Your Traditions
If your faith or heritage is a big part of your story, weaving in religious hymns or traditional cultural songs is such a meaningful way to honor it. From “Ave Maria” at a Catholic ceremony to traditional Jewish or Hindu music, these choices add a beautiful layer of depth and significance. And speaking from experience, I’ve heard “Ave Maria” many times, and in a venue with amazing acoustics like Scarritt-Bennett, it will make the hair stand up on the back of your neck! Don’t be afraid to blend traditions, either—mixing classic and contemporary, or including songs from both of your backgrounds, can be really special.
4. Instrumental and Acoustic Covers
Instrumental music is a super versatile option that works for almost any style of ceremony. A piano, a guitar, or even just a great playlist of instrumental covers of popular songs can create a romantic, understated mood. This is an especially great choice if you want the feel of familiar melodies without having lyrics distract from your vows.
5. Unique and Unexpected Choices
Remember, this day is all about you, so don’t be afraid to think outside the box! Maybe you want to walk down the aisle to a song from your favorite movie, a beautiful piece of jazz, or even a subtle instrumental version of a rock song. The most memorable ceremonies are the ones that feel authentic and true to the couple.
A Few Tips for Choosing Your Music
- Think about the mood: Do you want things to feel formal and grand, or relaxed and joyful? Your music is key to setting that tone.
- Check with your venue: Some places have rules about live music or sound equipment, so it’s always a good idea to check what’s allowed before you get your heart set on something.
- Plan for the key moments: You’ll typically want music for the processional (everyone walking in), maybe something soft for the signing of the register, and an upbeat song for the recessional (your grand exit!).
- Make it personal: Above all, pick what means something to you as a couple. Don’t worry about what’s “traditional” or what you’re “supposed” to do. Choose what feels right for you.
At the end of the day, your ceremony music is the opening score to your marriage. So pick the songs that reflect your love story, and get ready for an unforgettable “I do.”