This guide is designed to help you write heartfelt and personal wedding vows without the stress of starting from a blank page. The process is broken down into three simple parts: looking back, looking forward, and making promises.
Part 1: Looking Back – Our Story
These prompts are designed to help you reflect on your relationship’s journey. Choose the ones that resonate with you and fill them out with specific memories.
- The first time I knew I loved you was when…
- I’ll never forget the time we…
- The moment I realized I wanted to marry you was…
- One of my favorite things about you is…
- You taught me how to…
- You make me feel…
Part 2: Looking Forward – Our Future
Now, think about your future together. What do you hope for as a married couple?
- I am most excited about…
- I can’t wait for us to…
- I want our future to be filled with…
- My biggest hope for us is…
Part 3: The Promises
This is the core of your vows. Use these prompts to articulate the promises you are making to your partner.
- I promise to always…
- I promise to never forget…
- I promise to support you when…
- I promise to laugh with you…
- I promise to be there for you…
Once you have completed the prompts, you can weave the answers together into a cohesive vow. For example, you could start with a memory, transition into what you love about your partner, and then finish with your promises for the future. Don’t worry about being a professional writer; just speak from the heart.
Remember, your vows are a reflection of your unique love story. There is no right or wrong way to do this, so have fun with it!
Prepared by Nashvillel wedding officiant Ralph Griggs – www.ralphtiesknots.com